After preparing your ritual space (alter, casting circle, ect.) in your specific magickal tradition, and after making and stuffing the poppet with the the appropriate herbs, clothing, cotton, hair, ect, you may then begin by lighting the love incense (and candles if you're using them) and hold the Poppet in your right hand an "baptize" the poppet by placing it over the smoke. As you do this, concentrate on the individual the poppet represents (for this example, we'll pretend the spell is for you) and see the image of the real person (you) "blending" with that of the poppet. Visualize a magickal cord connecting both the poppet and yourself.

Repeat the above for the Second poppet (representing your Lover). However, visualize words, or characteristics that you would like to find in your Lover "blending" with the poppet. Make sure that you also specify any character traits that you don't want in a lover. After all, what's the point of having someone cute or pretty if they also lie, steal, or beat the crap out of you??? If you're going to do this, then do it right and go ahead and ask for the "whole package." Anyhow, after you finish blending the traits you want and don't want in your lover to the poppet, then visualize a magickal cord between you and that person - both in the real world, and between the poppets.

Do the above for about a minute for both poppets then with your left hand, dab your finger with Love oil and reach over and rub it on the poppets. As you rub the oil, say the following (say it with a strong Will):

"I created you, and I now give you life. My essence is within you, and you within me. You will do and grant my desires and bring me no harm. I baptize you in the name of (Insert your name for one poppet and insert "My true Love" for the other poppet) and give you the power to do as I wish. So I say, and so it will be!!!!!"

At this point, visualize the poppets glowing with energy and life. Believe it in your every fiber that the poppets are now charged with the power to do as you desire.......then gently place both poppets in the middle of your Alter (but with some distance between the poppets) and place your right hand over your poppet, and your left hand over your "lovers'" poppet. As you do this, say the following chant and slowly bring the poppets together until they are side by side and touching each other:

"Love I see, love I want,
Love I hold in my right hand.
Come by sea or by land,
Love I hold in my left hand

You might want to repeat the chant a few times if you feel it necessary. After, remove your hands, and sit quietly in front of the alter and visualize "love" in your life. See yourself already with someone special. See yourself married and with kids if you like. See the finished product already in your mind. After a few minutes, give thanks to the Universe for granting your Will. You may now get up, break the circle (if you used one) and let the magick takes its course...

You may wish to repeat the ritual for 9 consecutive days if you feel it's necessary. After you finally finish the ritual, then go about your daily life and try not to dwell or think about what you've just done. You've released the magick, now let it do your Will....